James Dexter Dowling II

Message from Christy

Dear Linda. Melissa, Kathy, Mary, and all family and friends. Such difficult pain to lose someone so dear. What a wonderful blessing to have a brother, husband, cousin, friend like Beau-- a bright light and a hero of being real and true and connected and there for you and also free spirited and fully alive! Blessings to every one of his family and friends missing him and his spice of life.
Love,
Christy

A candle was lit by Christy, Eddie, & Max with Love ❤️ on December 12, 2017 12:44 PM

A candle was lit by Kim, Jeff & Chase on December 10, 2017 10:44 AM

A candle was lit by Penny Patterson Greene on December 7, 2017 9:03 PM

Message from Howard Youth

Linda and Melissa,

I am so sorry to learn about the loss of your dear brother. I do not recall meeting him but I wish I had. I always knew how much he meant to you and the rest of your lovely family. We send our love and condolences.

Message from Salley, sc

So sorry to hear about his passing. He was a good friend in school!! Sending prayers to his family

Message from The Conners

Melissa, Linda - and everyone - sending you all lots of light and love, just like Beau Beau would at a time like this. What a remarkable person and what a huge void he leaves. The original cool dude with a heart of gold. I will miss him. xx oo Anna & Jerry

Message from L Putnam

Melissa I am just so sorry for the loss of your brother. I know how very special he is to you. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Message from Robin Proctor

Melissa (and all of Beau's family), I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I am happy you were able to officiate at his wedding recently and enjoy his happiness. I am sending all of you light.

A candle was lit by Theresa Stepp Nolan on December 5, 2017 8:05 AM

A candle was lit by Joanne Preston, San Carlos, Mexico on December 4, 2017 6:04 PM

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Having known Beau for most of my life I can truly say I will miss this gem of a human being and his gentle, genuine spirit. Though our paths didn't cross frequently, it was always a pleasure when they did, be it in Destin or Hooterville, and we always enjoyed what little time we had to share.
In many ways he was " the big brother" I never had and his wisdom and insight were a comfort over the years, especially when needed the most.
My thought and prayers are with you all... and though I am not with you in body, know that you are with me in spirit as we share yet one more loss in the family.
Living in Mexico has reinforced the importance of family and I am blessed to still feel like a part of yours, if only on the periphery. With fond memories, a warm smile and much love.

A candle was lit by Joanne Preston, San Carlos, Mexico on December 4, 2017 5:15 PM

Message from K Taylor

One of the most genuine people that I have ever met so far in my lifetime. I am truly sad to hear of his passing and have only fond, wonderful memories. He was a nice man, a nice person. There is not enough space on this page to summarize his vibrant life living as such a thoughtful human. It brings me peace that for someone with such a large brain and interest in everything that he also found so much joy in simple things. He always said, "Ya'll be good to each other" every single time I caught up with him at my folks in Destin. He certainly meant a lot to my family and will be missed beyond belief.

K Taylor and M Buckley, UK

A candle was lit by Kathy Wellington, Erin & Jonathan on December 4, 2017 8:43 AM

Message from Tim Chapman

I am so sorry to have to say goodbye to this man. The phrase "Prince of a human being" doesn't even come close to describing the goodness that he carried in his heart.
He had such a beautiful spirit about him and everyone that called him friend knows what I am talking about. He was a voracious reader, a lover of music, and someone who had such a genuine curious nature about the world around him. He embraced life in all forms and never stopped trying to further his understanding of it. If you were his friend and needed help in any situation you could count on Beau to be there. No questions asked. He would be the first one there and the last one to leave.
I will always remember body surfing with him in Destin a few days before a hurricane would hit when the waves were perfect and the water was warm. It was just pure fun and that's what Beau loved the most I think. Fun with friends.
I love you Beau and I will miss you in all things. Surfs up my brother. Catch one for me and enjoy that ride.